conflict, is a normal part of existence. there is no country, without conflicts, every country have its own problems. even amongst individuals, conflict, could still arise, when there is a contradiction in goals. it is so normal for conflict to arise in a group, but what is so abnormal and absurd about it, is when the individuals involved go about fighting their course. the main reason why conflict should arise in the first place, is because nobody wants to accept that he is wrong. but then, fight does not solve anything anyway, in fact it only increases the hatred in the group. it is always good to settle the conflict amicably, before it aggravates. the fact is that everybody feels he is right, even if they are wrong. trying to spell it to the person, when he is not willing to accept, will only create hatred. the truth is that, try and accept responsibilities for once. if you should tell someone that he is wrong the first time, and he does not accept, then just simply end the story, dont withdraw from that person, still be close to the person, sometime when the person finds out that he was wrong anyway, he will learn to believe and confide in you later on. but if the person continually force responsibility on you, then withdraw from him. the best victory, is the one won without a fight. but in all, never allow anyone intimidate you always be confident, and no one will look down on you.
When people say don't let people force responsibility on you, that statement in and of itself is forcing responsibility on you.
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